Are your negative emotions wasting your life?

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Have you ever considered that every time you worry or become angry with  someone or something, that you are wasting away that precious gift called life.  It is a sad fact that most of the population of the world waste a great deal of  their lives on negative emotions that  serve no purpose.

Financial concerns are one of the major emotions that cause  great suffering to humanity; but in the same token, other emotions are just as  destructive. Your negative emotions are also the catalyst to illness – believe  me, I know, and like you, I am trying to get to grips with a modicum of control  – my emotions. But before we can get into the ins and outs of dealing with your  emotions. Let me show you how much time that we waste.

Your wastage

If we say that you are worried 3 days out of a week, that’s 48 hours and  2,496 hours in a year, which is 208 days. Quite a wastage, don’t you think? Now  if you harbour anger with someone for no particular reason or because you have  judged the person wrongly, this would mean that you would keep that negative  emotion within you all day.

I will forget  the time you sleep and calculate this at 4,368 hours in a year, which equates to  364 wasted days. I could continue to show you that each negative emotion you  employ within yourself – could in fact waste most of your precious hours in your  life that you can be more positive and productive. Now imagine how many hours of  negative energy that work its cancer into your own energy field. Perhaps this  would serve as a hypothesis for why negative emotion can be the catalyst to  disease within the physical body.

Awareness

The first step to dealing with this, is awareness and mindfulness. You have  to be aware of the emotion in the first place and find its root cause. Mindfulness can be the tool to recognizing the power of awareness and allowing  the positive energy to induce the positive changes that are necessary. If you  suffer from anger, resentment, jealousy or any of the other negative emotions. 

You can take the time to recognize them, and in a mindful way, say that you are  aware but these emotions do not serve your higher purpose and allow them to  leave with love and compassion. This energy of the spirit will surely work its  way into the physical manifestation of positivity within your personal life, which in turn will affect others In a  positive way. In a sense, it is rather like throwing a pebble into a pond to  create a positive ripple, which will, in time, be carried throughout the whole  pond. So you see how you may positively affect yourself and those around  you.

I think it was the Buddha who said that “if you can change what you have  done, then do not worry about it, and if you cannot change the circumstance or  what you have done, then don’t worry about it.” From this statement, you might  deduce that worry is something you should not worry about, which seems quite  paradoxical I suppose.

We do waste our lives worrying about frivolous things or  things we cannot change – so what’s the point. It is of course not easy to  control the negativity in an instant, and this is a work in progress but each  step becomes a step closer to peace and happiness.

Become aware of suffering

The truth is that we all suffer, in different ways, but we all suffer  nonetheless. Anyone who is negative towards you Is suffering. The way that you  suffer is caused by yourself allowing your suffering to take hold. You can  change others suffering but showing love, compassion and understanding and  perhaps that will help the one who is suffering to show the same. In this way,  we help each other to end suffering.

No one deserves to suffer and those who  judge are already suffering from negative emotion. If you do not wish to end up  in an early grave, you should become aware of your emotions and your suffering  as well as others. Each step in a positive direction is a step towards  enlightenment.

Jock Brocas is a professional Psychic Medium who was natural from birth yet developed later in life. Jock has dedicated his later years to his own spiritual  development and the professional development of his psychic and mediumship  gifts. Being a professional Psychic Medium is very rewarding but also has its  inherent problems. Nevertheless, Jock believes in the sanctity of mediumship and  takes his work as a psychic medium very seriously.

Jock is known for  giving irrefutable evidence and some of which can be validated much later. Jock  is passionate about the science of psychic mediumship and works closely with  many professionals in this field. He does not give general information that some  psychics throw out and prefers the protocol of scientifically controlled  telephone appointments. Jock very rarely gives psychic readings face-to-face  unless pre booked.

Jock developed his psychic gifts and mediumship later  in life when he was visited by a spirit. At first, this visitation shocked him  and terrified him, which led him into the true vocation he was here for, a  psychic medium’s life. He learned from his past and recognized that he was being  groomed to work for spirit all his life – from growing up with spiritual leaders  and spending time with religious communities – the path was being prepared. He  is also a trained vocalist and is currently working on an Album to be released  at some point in the future.

Jock Brocas – About the author


Jock Brocas (Psychic Medium) has studied many martial arts in the past and dedicated his later years to the study of  Budo. He has amalgamated what he has learned in Budo and as a psychic medium to  help change individuals lives for the better.

http://www.jockbrocas.com

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Thought for the day ~ Follow your heart

Thought-for-the-dayFollow your heart and be true to yourself. Never live the life of another. You have to create your own road. You have a responsibility to be the best you can possibly be, so keep your mind and heart open to the higher aspects of your being and you will harness the power to have a loving and fulfilling life with attitude.”
~James Van Praagh~

How Much Is Your Self Worth?

selfesteemHow many times, have we been made to feel worthless and have no sense of direction because of being used and abused mentally by people and their words? Many times, people’s behaviour leaves us to question what we have done to be treated in this manner. The question is asked why anyone would want to treat another person in a way that it would harm them mentally, and scarring them perhaps for life. Some may recover, but what happens to those people who are not strong mentally and cannot cope because they have been made to feel that they are inferior and have no self-worth?

They begin to go through life not trusting another person and becoming suspicious of everyone and anything. The victim will have moments when the past will surface and feel by locking themselves away from the world and its mental torture they are safe. But in reality, they end up being on medication for the rest of their lives.

People with this kind of condition, need to regain their self-worth and the only way this can be done is for them to receive the right kind of therapy, where they can speak openly and honestly about their feelings. By speaking out, the individual can be guided in a way that he or she has the answer to their situation.

Everything in life is time! No matter how we look at the situation, time is the master. We cannot rush time, to heal the pain that has been left behind by another person being hurtful and cruel for whatever that reason maybe.

Ask yourself this, how can we avoid situations like these? Do we put and have boundaries and what happens when those boundaries are over stepped? Each of us in one way or another has lost our self-worth over something which could have been avoided. At the time, we had to take that journey to learn who we are and to become better individuals.

My question is, do we ever learn from our experiences in life, some of us might, but there are those who will continue going around in circles. What have they learnt NOTHING!!!  MY thoughts are strongly telling me LEARN FROM YOUR MISTAKES! By doing that, you become more aware and conscious and those people who made you feel that you were not worthy – where are they? Nowhere to be seen!!!

Beatrice Elder – About the Author:
Beatrice Elder is a UK based psychic medium clairvoyant who has been practising for over 2 years.  She features on Pyschic Interactive TV (UK Sky Channel 886) and has her own private clients.  Having developed her gift over the last few year, Beatrice has helped many by providing them with answers they thought may never have been answered in this lifetime. 

What Spiritualism means to me.

spirit rappingsTo many people, Spiritualism means one thing and one thing only — talking to the so-called dead. I use the term “so-called” deliberately because all true spiritualists know that no one dies — we all simply move on to the next world.

However, this idea of communication with a loved one in the next world is the only interest that many people have in our religion. Unfortunately this idea is fostered and encouraged by TV programmes about mediums, by the numerous books written by mediums in which they relate all the evidence they have given out to clients over the years, and by the public meetings held around the country where a large entrance fee is paid by many in the hopes of receiving a “message.” Those of us who attend local Spiritualist churches receive wonderful messages from our own local mediums and all for the cost of putting a donation into the collection plate!
Now to me the above has been blown out of all proportion. Yes, we do communicate with loved ones in the next world and yes we do obtain evidence of continued survival but this is not what the religion of Spiritualism is all about! It is only one part of our religion albeit a lovely one.

Spiritualism to me is about far, far more than knowing that people live on in another dimension. It tells me why I was born into this world, what I am supposed to do while I am here and where I will go when my time on this earthplane is over. It gives reason and purpose to my existence and enables me to face trials and tribulations knowing they are all part of my education in the “School of Life.”

I know that before I came into this world I was offered a plan and a road map to follow and sadly, like others, I have strayed from the path. I think it is of vital importance that people understand the life they are living, that they take advantage of every opportunity life offers them knowing that at the end of their days their life will be “reviewed” and that the place reserved for them in the next world will be according to the life they have lived in this world. It has nothing whatsoever to do with the church you attend or which system of belief you follow. All religions preach of the necessity of leading a good life,obeying God’s Laws and following the teachings of inspired leaders (like Jesus).

It is after this that the great divide between Spiritualism and other religions appears. Spiritualists know that they will have to answer for their sins when they arrive in the next world. Not for them the belief that someone else has already paid the price. Why oh why is this knowledge not emphasized and spoken about by our well-known mediums? Why do these TV programmes not open with a prayer, a hymn and a short address before they launch into “messages from the next world?” Why do we never see a Spiritualist Church featured on the BBC Songs of Praise?All I ever seem to read about these days are “Trance Communications”, “Ouija Boards“, “Physical Mediumship involving ectoplasm” “Apports” etc.

Now I know beyond any shadow of a doubt that my loved ones are in the next world. I have heard many, many evidiential messages from them over the years. I do not need this constant “proving of life after death” to be thrust at me from all sides. There is not one word about the importance to our immortal soul of living a good life. If this point was hammered home and everyone realised that they would have to pay the price of sin then perhaps the crime rate would drop. You may get away with something in this world but you won’t in the next! If the knowledge that all earth’s living creatures also have souls and are connected to God (not a sparrow shall fall) then perhaps it would put an end to the killing and expoitation of the animal kingdom. If the knowledge that we are all members of God’s family — one family — then there would be no hatred of other races or cultures.
So — come on all you Spiritualist mediums — not only must you tell everyone that there is nothing to fear in death but you must spread the message of the importance of life in this world — in the here and now. The importance of doing the best you can, wherever you are and whenever you are able.

You must emphasize that life is a “School of Learning” and, if you don’t pass its spiritual exams or make the grade, you will have to return to this world to re-sit them. Let’s get back to basics and teach the Seven Principles of our religion.
1. Fatherhood of God. (One God for All)
2. Brotherhood of Man. (Sisters and Brothers all)
3. Communion of Spirits and the Ministry of Angels. (Help available from the next world)
4. Continuous Existence of the Human Soul. (You can’t die)
5. Personal Responsibility. (No saviour God to pay the price of your sins)
6. Compensation and Retribution for all good and evil deeds. (What ye sow so shall ye also reap)
7. Eternal Progress open to every soul. (not just one chance to make it!)
Spiritualists — God has given us a great task to do.Let us not fail him!
If you would like to know more about my thoughts on Spiritualism then read my book “Why I am a Spiritualist.” Visit my website www.missadamckay.com

Written By Ada McKay

Article Source spiritguides.co.uk

The Secret of Psychic Mediumship The Sceptics Don’t Want You to Know.

Who else is thinking about getting a psychic medium reading... but is still a bit sceptical it's all fake? Do you have someone you'd love to contact on the "other side" but feel silly, or sceptical that it's even possible?

The Secret of Psychic Mediumship The Sceptics Don’t Want You to Know

Who else is thinking about getting a psychic medium reading… but is still a bit sceptical it’s all fake? Do you have someone you’d love to contact on the “other side” but feel silly, or sceptical that it’s even possible? If you are anything like I once was, the idea that life continues ON after physical death is a pretty hard concept to swallow. I was a die hard sceptic (no pun intended… 🙂 and the notion that there was ANY sort of afterlife at all was the hobgoblin of small, gullible minds that wouldn’t accept death was truly the end.

But I had an AMAZING experience that challenged all of this… and more, and made my sceptical world view come CRASHING to an end, in one 60 minute session with a psychic medium I didn’t believe was real.

I was WRONG… 🙂

The fact is, information came through in a one hour session with a psychic medium that would have been IMPOSSIBLE for them to have known in advance. As a matter of fact, much of what came through, I didn’t even know… and it wasn’t until I hung up the phone, processed the information, made some calls to family and friends, and learned that much of what I was told was 100% true, some of it SO obscure that I had a difficult time explaining why I was asking, or where I had come up with it.

And this ONE experience led me on a fact finding mission that has lasted 20 years

What have I learned?

That there is TONS of evidence that mediumship is real, with some of the very BEST scientists, philosophers and even sceptical debunkers doing a 180 degree turn after studying REAL mediums who offered amazing information that simply could not be passed off as fraud, guessing, luck or cold reading

That psychic mediumship has been PROVEN in laboratory settings, under the watchful eye of genuine scientists and real experiments that are impossible to ignore. (including experiments done at the University of Arizona with Harvard trained Doctor Gary Schwartz, who worked with celebrity mediums like Jon Edward’s, George Anderson and even the real life psychic that the television show, “Medium” is based upon)

The FACT is, in my view, any reasonable person can conclude that mediumship… and our ability to contact the dead, is not only TRUE… it’s been proven beyond a reasonable doubt in countless studies, personal experiences and amazing encounters that truly defy conventional thinking. I know that having this experience has changed MY life forever in positive ways TOO numerous too count… and if you’re lucky, I hope you have a similar one that changes YOURS equally as much!

Written by Ernie J. Gentile

The Secret of Psychic Mediumship The Skeptics DON’t Want You to Know (Dazzling But TRUE!)

Who else is thinking about getting a psychic medium reading… but is still a bit skeptical it’s all fake? Do you have someone you’d love to contact on the “other side” but feel silly, or skeptical that it’s even possible? If you are anything like I once was, the idea that life continues ON after physical death is a pretty hard concept to swallow. I was a die hard skeptic (no pun intended… 🙂 and the notion that there was ANY sort of afterlife at all was the hobgoblin of small, gullible minds that wouldn’t accept death was truly the end.

But I had an AMAZING experience that challenged all of this… and more, and made my skeptical world view come CRASHING to an end, in one 60 minute session with a psychic medium I didn’t believe was real.

I was WRONG… 🙂

The fact is, information came through in a one hour session with a psychic medium that would have been IMPOSSIBLE for them to have known in advance. As a matter of fact, much of what came through, I didn’t even know… and it wasn’t until I hung up the phone, processed the information, made some calls to family and friends, and learned that much of what I was told was 100% true, some of it SO obscure that I had a difficult time explaining why I was asking, or where I had come up with it.

And this ONE experience led me on a fact finding mission that has lasted 20 years

What have I learned?

That there is TONS of evidence that mediumship is real, with some of the very BEST scientists, philosophers and even skeptical debunkers doing a 180 degree turn after studying REAL mediums who offered amazing information that simply could not be passed off as fraud, guessing, luck or cold reading

That psychic mediumship has been PROVEN in laboratory settings, under the watchful eye of genuine scientists and real experiments that are impossible to ignore. (including experiments done at the University of Arizona with Harvard trained Doctor Gary Schwartz, who worked with celebrity mediums like Jon Edward’s, George Anderson and even the real life psychic that the television show, “Medium” is based upon)

The FACT is, in my view, any reasonable person can conclude that mediumship… and our ability to contact the dead, is not only TRUE… it’s been proven beyond a reasonable doubt in countless studies, personal experiences and amazing encounters that truly defy conventional thinking. I know that having this experience has changed MY life forever in positive ways TOO numerous too count… and if you’re lucky, I hope you have a similar one that changes YOURS equally as much!

Written by Ernie J. Gentile