The problem isn’t that we have problems.


The problem isn’t that we have problems. The problem is we’ve become weak. and we make most of the problems ourselves. There’s far too many people looking for “someone” or some “thing” to blame for their lot or stages in life. We’ve become a world consisting of a self-serving, hedonistic life-style that only breeds further contempt, shame, cynicism, and fear…HATERS, Look…

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Moving Beyond the Ego Barrier


Moving Beyond the Ego Barrier

Moving Beyond the Ego Barrier

“I did it! I finally had the courage and saw it through. I never thought I could. It worked! I can’t believe it worked!”

These are the words of a woman I had been talking to about the behaviour of her teenage daughter. Her child had become so difficult that the mother was desperate. I saw the solution quite clearly. It came to me so strongly and firmly, controversially but I knew from the deepest part of me it would work and the two of them could resolve and have a brilliant relationship.

How did I know it was the right thing to say? How did I know it would resolve their difficulties? When your ego works in harmony with you it is easy for you to link with and trust your intuition and psychic perceptions.

When the ego is out of control and too big for its boots, it hinders the natural path of intuition, intuitive instinct and psychic ability. The ego self will deny the presence of intuition and rely heavily on logic, reason and emotional fears rather than embrace higher thinking automatically.

When developing psychic ability, at some point or another, people go through a period of time when an argument erupts between the inner ‘ego’ and ‘higher thinking’. The ego doesn’t like change; it is a creature of habit which is there to protect the physical existence of the human body. It is the part of you that knows stepping out in front of a moving bus means you get squashed. That is its purpose: it is there to remind you to protect the physical. The all-knowing part of you, however, is aware it is eternal and forgets it must look after the vehicle it travels in during this lifetime.

How do you tell the difference between ego and intuition?

Your intuition is relentless and cannot be budged from its position whereas the ego can be talked into and out of anything. An example would be if your intuition told you to pursue a particular career. No human on earth could truly talk you out of that feeling. They may be able to talk you out of following that feeling but never out of recognising that feeling.

It is often difficult to recognise which parts of you operate from the ego self. In this case we will use ‘ego’ to loosely describe fear or fear-based actions. Many of our fears operate without us fully participating or recognising what is taking place.

When we start to develop our psychic skills, it is more difficult for the ego to take control. This is why many people on the psychic path find it increasingly difficult to deny their truth. They find it challenging to: stay in situations or places that no longer suit; tell someone they are being mean rather than ignore it; suddenly change a job that they’ve been meaning to do for the past five years. These are all signs that they are getting a handle on the ego self and its control over them. It starts to operate in the form it was meant to and begins to work in harmony with, rather than against, the deep, never-ending knowledge of your instinctual intuitive self.

Today the woman and her daughter are talking again. Both are equally respectful of the other. It took less than a week to fix. She had previously been trying for months, even years. She did not have to sit down and read her daughter the riot act. She simple followed something scary and out of her everyday mindset.

She stepped outside the ego.

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About the Author

http://www.HeidiSawyer.com Heidi Sawyer is the Course Director of the Institute of Psychic Development. She is the authority on the subject and her home study psychic development course is the flagship course in this field. It is the most sold product of its kind in the world. What makes Heidi stand out from others is her very strong and loyal psychic support network. Visit her psychic courses website or join her 20,000+ psychic newsletter readership. http://www.PsychicCourses.com

Can You Change?

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Can You Change?

Do you really believe that everyone can change his or her lives for the better? Of course you can and it takes only one decision. The issue exists that even when you decide to change your life for the better, you are up against the sum total of all your missed opportunities (past mistakes). So, it does not seem as easy as just a decision. However, the decision is the starting point. Anyone can change because we know that change is a constant, therefore we are always evolving. This means that we are always in a period of change.

The blockages that you come up against are those that are created by yourself believing that you cannot change and from others who want to see you hurt because it makes them feel better. Let’s look at each blockage a little more in detail, which will hopefully enlighten you as to the methods or ways to overcome these blockages.

The human being is a very resilient animal, yet if you bring in the spiritual aspect into the equation life becomes a rollercoaster and you are the one in control. It takes on a new meaning, rather like panning for gold and recognizing that you have just struck the mother load.

Believe in yourself! How many times have you heard this statement? I bet you have heard it many times over. It’s not as easy as you think, but the truth is that if you do not believe in yourself, you will find it very difficult to change anything or achieve anything. Many people fail at this first hurdle and it seems that everything you really want to be or change for the better is so far in the distance.

If you believe in a higher power you can believe in yourself and if you have difficulty with believing in a higher power, yet you are beginning to believe in yourself you can bet the higher power is at work. This is because you are a spiritual being and have an amazing power that you can harness to better yourself. No matter what you think of yourself, you have the right to happiness and this is a matter of choice.

Perhaps if you begin to really feel that you deserve happiness and no matter what causes lay in the past, you have the power to make the present wonderful by knowing that you can make the changes that are necessary. Every positive thing you do for yourself and in service to others strengthens your resolve for change to be affected.

Now even after you have gotten over that hurdle and you are beginning to feel better about yourself, you find another hurdle. This is the hurdle that is erected, not by yourself but by those who are damaged themselves and who do not want you to succeed in anything.

The truth is that many people are suffering needlessly and normally due to the three lacks. The Three Lacks are the same spiritual lessons that the Great Spirit has always wished to impart to us and that is;

  • Love
  • Forgiveness
  • Compassion

These are the three lacks that are also the spiritual lessons of life. If we lack in any of these three lessons or attributes, then we cause suffering not only to ourselves but also to those around us. This also means these people will act in such a way that will cause suffering to you because it makes them feel good, powerful and self gratifies themselves.

Hurdles that are borne from the Lacks are erected by those who do not wish you to change and who show you no compassion, love or forgiveness because it fuels their ego and makes them feel good. This is the worse type of suffering and no one deserves to suffer in life. So how do you deal with those Damaged People?

What you have to show or give is what they lack in themselves. Never retaliate, use loving speech and do not feed your negative seeds or the negative energy that may surround you. This reminds me of an old Cherokee Indian story that denotes the profound spiritual truth. A Chief from the Cherokee Nation was talking with his son.

“A fight is going on inside me,” he said to the boy. “It is a terrible fight between two wolves.” The young boy listened intently. “One wolf is evil, unhappy, and ugly: He is anger, envy, war, greed, selfishness, sorrow, regret, guilt, resentment, inferiority/superiority, false pride, coarseness, and arrogance.

He spreads lies, deceit, fear, hatred, blame, scarcity, poverty, and divisiveness.” “The other wolf is beautiful and good: He is friendly, joyful, loving, worthy, serene, humble, kind, benevolent, just, fair, empathetic, generous, honest, compassionate, grateful, brave, and inspiring resting wholeheartedly in deep vision beyond ordinary wisdom.” The son paused in deep reflection of what his father had just said. Then he exclaimed; “Oyee! (In recognition).

His father continued; “This same fight is going on inside you and inside all human beings even though they fail to recognize it.” The young boy paused in deep reflection and recognition of what his grandfather had just said. Then he finally cried out deeply, “Oyee! Grandfather, which wolf will win this horrific war?” The elder Cherokee replied, “The wolf that you feed. That wolf will surely win!” Sometimes the greatest weapon you have is silence for within the silence is the nourishment for the soul.

Don’t feed fears for the fear will become the angry wolf and do not feed those that would seek to block you with your fear. You have the right to happiness as everyone has that right, and not one person should judge. You have to forgive yourself before you can forgive others and even though your path may seem blocked your light will shine and resilience will become stronger. You will leap over the hurdle that others erect.

The last and final hurdle that you will come across in your quest for change is the support network that you have around you. If you have no support you cannot stand. If your legs are taken from you, will you crawl on your belly or will you recognize that your spiritual legs can carry you further than the physical and material?

As a spiritual being, you can transcend any problem that is presented in the material world. Maybe your support network does not seem to be around you. The truth is that you have the support of the spirit and when the spirit is strong, it can answer the call that nature requires of it. You are a spiritual being that can overcome these hurdles and all you have to do is recognize the power of the spirit no matter what life throws at you.

The past is gone; the future has not arrived so the only time to live is now in the present moment.

Jock  Brocas –    About the Author:

Jock Brocas is a professional Psychic Medium who was natural from birth yet  developed later in life. Jock has dedicated his later years to his own spiritual  development and the professional development of his psychic and mediumship  gifts. Being a professional Psychic Medium is very rewarding but also has its  inherent problems. Nevertheless, Jock believes in the sanctity of mediumship and  takes his work as a psychic medium very seriously.

Jock is known for  giving irrefutable evidence and some of which can be validated much later. Jock  is passionate about the science of psychic mediumship and works closely with  many professionals in this field. He does not give general information that some  psychics throw out and prefers the protocol of scientifically controlled  telephone appointments. Jock very rarely gives psychic readings face-to-face  unless pre booked.

Jock developed his psychic gifts and mediumship later  in life when he was visited by a spirit. At first, this visitation shocked him  and terrified him, which led him into the true vocation he was here for, a  psychic medium’s life. He learned from his past and recognized that he was being  groomed to work for spirit all his life – from growing up with spiritual leaders  and spending time with religious communities – the path was being prepared. He  is also a trained vocalist and is currently working on an Album to be released  at some point in the future.

Jock Brocas (Psychic Medium) has studied  many martial arts in the past and dedicated his later years to the study of  Budo. He has amalgamated what he has learned in Budo and as a psychic medium to  help change individuals lives for the better.

 

Why do people label other people ? (via A World of Inspiration and a little extra!)

Why do people label other people ? Why do people label other people especially if they don’t know them to begin with ? Well first off everyone knows the saying  ” It doesn’t matter what a person looks like on the outside  its what’s on the inside that counts” everyone should know and understand this by the age of 9 years Most of all its because they are ignorant. They wont open their mind to anything that is different’. They just don’t understand that EVERYONE “IS” DIFFERENT  Its … Read More

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Are your negative emotions wasting your life?

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Have you ever considered that every time you worry or become angry with  someone or something, that you are wasting away that precious gift called life.  It is a sad fact that most of the population of the world waste a great deal of  their lives on negative emotions that  serve no purpose.

Financial concerns are one of the major emotions that cause  great suffering to humanity; but in the same token, other emotions are just as  destructive. Your negative emotions are also the catalyst to illness – believe  me, I know, and like you, I am trying to get to grips with a modicum of control  – my emotions. But before we can get into the ins and outs of dealing with your  emotions. Let me show you how much time that we waste.

Your wastage

If we say that you are worried 3 days out of a week, that’s 48 hours and  2,496 hours in a year, which is 208 days. Quite a wastage, don’t you think? Now  if you harbour anger with someone for no particular reason or because you have  judged the person wrongly, this would mean that you would keep that negative  emotion within you all day.

I will forget  the time you sleep and calculate this at 4,368 hours in a year, which equates to  364 wasted days. I could continue to show you that each negative emotion you  employ within yourself – could in fact waste most of your precious hours in your  life that you can be more positive and productive. Now imagine how many hours of  negative energy that work its cancer into your own energy field. Perhaps this  would serve as a hypothesis for why negative emotion can be the catalyst to  disease within the physical body.

Awareness

The first step to dealing with this, is awareness and mindfulness. You have  to be aware of the emotion in the first place and find its root cause. Mindfulness can be the tool to recognizing the power of awareness and allowing  the positive energy to induce the positive changes that are necessary. If you  suffer from anger, resentment, jealousy or any of the other negative emotions. 

You can take the time to recognize them, and in a mindful way, say that you are  aware but these emotions do not serve your higher purpose and allow them to  leave with love and compassion. This energy of the spirit will surely work its  way into the physical manifestation of positivity within your personal life, which in turn will affect others In a  positive way. In a sense, it is rather like throwing a pebble into a pond to  create a positive ripple, which will, in time, be carried throughout the whole  pond. So you see how you may positively affect yourself and those around  you.

I think it was the Buddha who said that “if you can change what you have  done, then do not worry about it, and if you cannot change the circumstance or  what you have done, then don’t worry about it.” From this statement, you might  deduce that worry is something you should not worry about, which seems quite  paradoxical I suppose.

We do waste our lives worrying about frivolous things or  things we cannot change – so what’s the point. It is of course not easy to  control the negativity in an instant, and this is a work in progress but each  step becomes a step closer to peace and happiness.

Become aware of suffering

The truth is that we all suffer, in different ways, but we all suffer  nonetheless. Anyone who is negative towards you Is suffering. The way that you  suffer is caused by yourself allowing your suffering to take hold. You can  change others suffering but showing love, compassion and understanding and  perhaps that will help the one who is suffering to show the same. In this way,  we help each other to end suffering.

No one deserves to suffer and those who  judge are already suffering from negative emotion. If you do not wish to end up  in an early grave, you should become aware of your emotions and your suffering  as well as others. Each step in a positive direction is a step towards  enlightenment.

Jock Brocas is a professional Psychic Medium who was natural from birth yet developed later in life. Jock has dedicated his later years to his own spiritual  development and the professional development of his psychic and mediumship  gifts. Being a professional Psychic Medium is very rewarding but also has its  inherent problems. Nevertheless, Jock believes in the sanctity of mediumship and  takes his work as a psychic medium very seriously.

Jock is known for  giving irrefutable evidence and some of which can be validated much later. Jock  is passionate about the science of psychic mediumship and works closely with  many professionals in this field. He does not give general information that some  psychics throw out and prefers the protocol of scientifically controlled  telephone appointments. Jock very rarely gives psychic readings face-to-face  unless pre booked.

Jock developed his psychic gifts and mediumship later  in life when he was visited by a spirit. At first, this visitation shocked him  and terrified him, which led him into the true vocation he was here for, a  psychic medium’s life. He learned from his past and recognized that he was being  groomed to work for spirit all his life – from growing up with spiritual leaders  and spending time with religious communities – the path was being prepared. He  is also a trained vocalist and is currently working on an Album to be released  at some point in the future.

Jock Brocas – About the author


Jock Brocas (Psychic Medium) has studied many martial arts in the past and dedicated his later years to the study of  Budo. He has amalgamated what he has learned in Budo and as a psychic medium to  help change individuals lives for the better.

http://www.jockbrocas.com

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Thoughts and Creating Positivity

gandhi_thoughtsI myself have had to change the way I approach everyday life. We place too much expectation on others, which can create a situation that becomes toxic because of feeling unloved and insecure. Insecurities have become a way of everyday life! How do we begin to feel secure? We must first deal with the issue at hand by changing the way we think about ourselves, focusing on our individuality, giving ourselves the love which we so richly deserve and only by doing so, can we begin to shift the negative energy from around us.

It is important that we understand what we as individuals are saying to one another, as this can create fear from being insecure. Too many times, we feel a certain way and the energy that we put into this feeling can create paranoia and negative thoughts. With this in mind, we need to look deep within us to ask the question why am I feeling this way, and what can I do to shift this energy? Start by changing your thoughts and remove any negative energy which you are harbouring. You may ask how you remove negative energy.

Firstly, begin by changing the way you think! Become more positive in yourself with the things you say and do. This will begin to shift your energy from negative to positive. In time you will notice peoples approach in a more positive manner and situations around you becomes much calmer and lighter. Anything before, that appeared and seemed like a problem becomes much easier to deal with.

You become more confident in yourself, and with this new found confidence, you feel uplifted and want to move mountains. Every thought you’ve ever had becomes stronger with positivity and you begin to view people and situations without being harsh and critical, but with more of an open mind.

It can sometimes prove difficult to break out of a negative cycle, you may have tried to be positive and something drags you back to negative thought patterns. In this case it might be advisable to seek outside help. This could come from a variety of sources including counselling, life coaching and healing. They are many types of healing that can help by removing negative energy from your energy fields, leaving you uplifted.

Positivity is the key in everything that we see, feel and think. The more people start to change the way they are thinking, the world will become a much better place for all of us to live in.

Beatrice Elder – About the Author:

Beatrice Elder is a UK based psychic medium clairvoyant who has been practising for over 2 years. She features on Pyschic Interactive TV (UK Sky Channel 886) and has her own private clients. Having developed her gift over the last few year, Beatrice has helped many by providing them with answers they thought may never have been answered in this lifetime.