Following your own guidance.

Following your own guidance.

Following your own guidance.

The more and more each is impelled by that which is intuitive, or the relying upon the soul force within, the greater, the farther, the deeper, the broader, the more constructive may be the result.”

Edgar Cayce

Intuition is defined as ‘a thing that one knows or considers likely from instinctive feeling rather than conscious reasoning.’ The word ‘intuition’ comes from the Latin word “intueri”, which means to see within.

Intuition has been referred to in many different ways including sixth sense, following your heart, guidance, inspiration and inner wisdom.

However we may choose to refer to it, the Law of Attraction explains that everyone is an extension of source energy and has access to infinite intelligence within them. Also, as everyone is unique with unique intentions and desires, everyone’s guidance from infinite intelligence is unique to them.

Guidance or intuition can come in many different forms including feelings, dreams, visions, hearing the same thing several times in a short period of time and synchronicities. However, whilst it can come in different ways some of which are outer signs you can know the significance of it by how it feels.

There are also different reasons as to why you receive guidance, often it is to lead you in a particular direction, whilst at other times it is to reassure you that things are working out for you and that there is a loving universe that is aware of and assisting you.

It has been said that guidance takes into account an infinite number of factors from a higher perspective and that usually we are not aware of all of these factors as if we were, we would be overloaded with unnecessary information, when all we need is the guidance about what to do or what to think.

In relation to this sometimes the guidance doesn’t seem logical, however the more people begin to pay attention to it, the more they usually see that it is assisting them. For instance as guidance is operating in a non-linear framework, someone’s guidance might tell them to meet a friend on Saturday afternoon but logically they know they can’t because they have a client on Saturday afternoon.

However their infinite intelligence is taking into account the fact that the client is going to reschedule their appointment. Another interesting aspect of guidance is that usually you are not given guidance for the whole of your journey but rather moment by moment guidance for the next step.

A key part of living the Law of Attraction is developing an increased awareness of and relationship with your intuition. People are sometimes taught to listen to others, rather than to follow what feels right to them, however as they begin to increasingly follow their own guidance, they become more of their own authority in their life and to know that their unique guidance matters. Following your own guidance also leads to life being easier and more of an exciting adventure.

It can be best to begin to follow your guidance on things that are more inconsequential such as which way to walk or drive. The more you listen to and follow your guidance the more you will then having an increasing ability to discern what is guidance and what isn’t and you will gain more and more confidence and trust in your own guidance and how it is benefiting you.

Whilst guidance is always available there are several things that you can do to open yourself to receive it more. One powerful way is to firstly begin to pay attention to it and to appreciate it when you do receive it, as this will keep you in a receptive mode to allow more guidance to flow.

Also, as infinite intelligence is operating on the level of love and appreciation through doing regular lists of appreciation you will have greater access to guidance. Furthermore meditating regularly clears the mind which allows guidance to be more easily recognised.

A final technique that can be useful if you have a particular decision to make, is to write down a request to the universe such as “allow me to know which direction to take in my life” and to then go into meditation. Very often through having firstly clarified and focused on the question by writing it, an answer will come to you during the unresisted time of meditation. However, even if it doesn’t come to you immediately if you do your best to stay open to receiving an answer at a later time, the answer will very likely come.


Tracy Friend – About the Author:

Tracy Friend, is a leading authority on the Law of Attraction philosophy whose profound yet practical teachings have touched the lives of thousands across the UK, Europe and the US.

She is co-founder of the Law of Attraction Centre, which was established in 2003 and is the largest and most trusted organisation in Europe dedicated to teaching the practical application of the Law of Attraction teachings.

Through proven technology delivered through workshops, groups and products including books, audios and meditation CDs, The Law of Attraction Centre’s objective is to share tools to encourage self-empowerment, improving the quality of people’s lives and helping change the world for the better.

With its base in London, UK and other communities around the UK and internationally, The Law of Attraction Centre has over 3,500 members focused on the study and practice of the Law of Attraction, with over 800 groups and events having been organised to date.

In addition to hosting weekly groups both online and offline, Tracy maintains a rigorous workshop schedule.

Tracy’s ventures also include the creation of Meditation 101 Live™, a free online meditation experience with webinars on most days, it provides a space for people to meditate with other’s from across the world. Tracy’s Creating a Wonderful Life, Living in Love, Opening to Abundance and Happy Body visualisations have been designed as tools to assist you in using the power of guided visualisation to bring all of your dreams and desires into fruition. Tracy has also produced a four part on–demand Living the Law of Attraction Online Training Course and a three part on-demand Opening to Abundance Online Training Course.

In Tracy’s one to one coaching practice she has helped people in the fields of health, wellbeing and relationships.

When Tracy is not running Law of Attraction events and coaching, she loves to travel and to continue her life’s study of human potential and well-being.

Mind Power – The Secrets

Mind power - The Secrets. You probably didn't know it, but your mind is actually far more powerful than you think. Like a magnet, what it sees and thinks it will eventually bring to  itself.

Learn Mind Power – The real secrets

You probably didn’t know it, but your mind is actually far more powerful than you think. Like a magnet, what it sees and thinks it will eventually bring to  itself. This is something called the ‘Law of Attraction’. What the law of attraction basically states is that if you believe something, it’s going to  happen.

The law of attraction is basically the act of believing something  is going to happen so strongly that it does. You can have the best life if you  want it, but you have to be able to think it, feel it, and envision it first.  This may take some practice, but success only comes with persistence in any  endeavor. The power of the mind is amazing.

Most people do not realise  how powerful their mind is. According to research, people only use 10% of their  actual brain power. That means 90% is going to waste! Instead of believing in  our mind power, we stick with what we know and take the easy way.

This is  part of the reason that we have trouble in life. We think negative thoughts  because we do not believe that the positive can happen. We just continue to  attract negativity. The reality is that when we think that way then it will  happen.

First, understand that ‘reality’ is within your mind. Whatever  you’ve got to this point has been because of your subconscious mind power. A lot  of people think that everyone has extra sensory or psychic powers. But you have  to make an effort for these powers to come out. Your mind power is real; just  choose to use it.

If you want something better out of life, you just have  to visualize it.and this works in reverse, too. People who expect the worst, get  the worst.

A few things you can do may help you to increase your mind  power. One thing you can try is a technique called visualization. This is a  powerful technique that will let you exercise your mind. It can even lead to you  gaining more mind power.

When you visualize,  what you do is to sit down and create pictures and images inside your mind’s eye. Doing so is going to bring these images to life in your own reality, but  first, you have to start by thinking about it. You need to get your subconscious mind involved, too, because your subconscious mind is very powerful when it  comes to creating your own real-life from the images you see.

The  subconscious mind is what will actually bring these images to life. Make sure  the images you hold in your mind are positive images. Think a little bit about  how you actually want your life before you begin your visualization  practice.

You might try this: Write everything down on a piece of paper,  either as a list or as though you were telling a story. What goals do you have  for yourself? Then, create what you visualize around these goals. Writing these  things down will make it hard for you to simply ignore them another day. Try  doing this several times a day at first until what you’re doing becomes ‘real’  to you.

You can also use affirmations to increase your mind power. Affirmations are simply little, encouraging positive sayings that you can save  yourself throughout the day. It can be about anything. For example, if you want  to lose 10 pounds, you can say something  to the effect of, ‘I’m losing the extra weight effortlessly and easily.’ As you  continue to say this, you may notice that truly, the weight is actually coming  off pretty easily. It’ll just naturally start to happen.

Positive things  will happen if you think positive. Just remember it also works the same way with  negative thoughts.

Another option is to use brainwave entrainment to  develop your mind power. This is done through the synchronization of brainwaves  using different frequencies through audio technology. The brain is an amazing  thing in that it can do more than one thing at a time. Using advanced audio  technology you can improve your minds power to heal.

You can also enhance  your memory and bring into effect the psychic powers you have, which already  exist. This is a pretty advanced procedure, but it does work.

Again, literally everyone has this  power, the power of the mind. It’s a matter of believing in your abilities and  then working on developing them. Again, this isn’t likely to happen overnight,  but it will happen if you stay focused. You can have the life you want. You can  change your circumstances from bad to good, or your luck from bad to good. As  you work on developing your mind power, you can then train it out into the  universe for good, so that what you put out will manifest back to you in the  positive, and is what you desire.

Remember everything starts with the  subconscious mind. The only thing holding you back is your conscious mind!

LouisBacurre –    About the  Author:

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Be Careful What You Wish For…

Careful What You Wish For

Be Careful What You Wish For…

Have you ever caught yourself saying “Be Careful What You Wish For”? Or how about these other common expressions…. “Birds of a Feather Flock Together”, “What goes around comes around”, “You Reap What You Sow”, and my favourite “When It Rains It Pours”?

Did you know that as you use these expressions, you’re really describing evidence of the Law of Attraction?  Law of Attraction says, that which is likened to itself is drawn. So think about it… what goes around comes around is the perfect example.
Even as you’re saying these things I’m wondering if you’re really understanding just how powerful the Law of attraction is?

The bottom line is that Law of Attraction is responsible for much of what you see in your experience. Here’s another example of evidence of Law of Attraction: Think about your own experiences or those near you.  In fact it’s sometimes easier to see it in others.

Notice the correlation between what you’re thinking, speaking and what you’re getting. Or notice others who are negative and attract negative relationships, situations and events over & over. Or those who talk the most about illness have more of it, and those who think and talk the most about not having enough money, don’t have it.

Your Thought And Emotions Create Your Experience… Period!

Here’s how it works: Think of your thoughts and emotions as magnetic. As you think a thought you attract similar thoughts.  Without doing it on purpose you even dig into your past experiences for similar thoughts.  And then you start to talk about it and others reach into their experience for similar thoughts and if they are negative thoughts, you start on this downward negative spiral.  So even a small, insignificant thought can grow to be very powerful and evoke negative emotion. Thoughts with powerful emotion are the attractor factor.

By the same token, when you think about what you DO want, you will begin to draw people and conversations and events that are in alignment with what you do want and you’ll feel positive emotion.

Be Careful What You Wish For…

How To Do It!

1. Want to avoid what you don’t want?  Don’t give it any thought.
2. Want to attract what you DO want?  Think about it! The more you think about what you DO want the clearer you’ll become, and as you focus on it, your positive passion and emotion will bubble up and the powerful Law of Attraction will match your powerful emotions!

Remember Thoughts + Strong Emotion will bring about the change you want! So, make it what you Do want rather than what you don’t want!

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– About the Author:

Jodi Santangelo is a speaker and certified Law of Attraction trainer who assists individuals, entrepreneurs & organizations who are ready to Accelerate their Success and attract more of what they want in their life and business. She is the author of “Dynamic Affirmations” (www.dynamicaffirmationsbook.com), a step-by-step guide for creating goals and affirmations that work for you, and “101 Law of Attraction Questions You Never Thought To Ask And Their Shocking Answers!” (www.101LOAShockingAnswers.com). You can also get her Free Law of Attraction 5 Key Lessons at www.JodiSantangelo.com

Fear, Worry and Doubt ~ The Enemies Of Your Self-Confidence

Do you feel sometimes as being in the middle of a desert? When you started  you had a clear vision of your goals, but now you don’t know any more whether  you are going in a right direction, you have begun to fear, worry and doubt.  This is usually the moment we leave the right path and start going around in  circles. I was once doing my research in the Middle East and took a taxi to go  somewhere, but my taxi driver didn’t have faith in me, and every time I asked  him to go straight, he turned right or left. Thus, I wasted lot of time driving  around in circles until he decided to trust me and we reached our destination.  Worry and fear cause doubt which is the biggest reason of all the failures in  our lives. Our confidence is cut off when we are fearful and worried.

doubt_diceRobert Anthony says that “self-confidence is the inner feeling of certainty”. Brian Tracy states that successful people act in spite of  fear, while unsuccessful people let fear stop them, because successful people  are self-confident and they move intuitively in the right direction. Self-confidence is not just a self-confident look on your  face, acting like you are better than others. It is your inner guidance and  peace of mind. It simply means having faith in oneself. Self-confidence gives us  energy to create our dreams. Steve G. Jones says that our lives are shaped by  decisions that we make and the decision to act is fueled by confidence. If you  want to land at your dream job but lack the confidence to make the decision to  act in a way that would bring you closer to your goals, you will probably wind  up without achieving your goal. Confidence is a resource which is both  invaluable and essential toward the achievement of any goal.

We often let worry take over our lives, as worry is almost our God.  Atkinson says that “a man may worry himself  to death and yet nothing will be accomplished, but when he transmutes his worry  and discontent into desire and belief, then something happens.”  Rev.  Christopher Ian Chenoweth compares worrying to being in a rocking chair. You are  rocking back and forth, back and forth – you feel like you are doing something,  but you are not getting anywhere.  You are just mentally and physically  tiring yourself out. Thinking about all the things that could be wrong or go  wrong doesn’t make your life any more controllable or safer.  Mark Twain  said once: “I’ve suffered a great many catastrophes in my life. Most of them  never happened”. 99% of what we worry about, never come to pass.  Worry can  never accomplish anything. Worry is negative and destructive. William Walker  Atkinson claims in his book “Thought Vibration Or the Law of Attraction in the  Thought World” that worry is the child of fear – if you kill out fear, worry  will die for want of nourishment.

The act of worrying is using your imagination and emotion to create something  you do not want. If you are in a situation where you haven’t got any results in  achieving your goals, and you start to question and doubt, you are moving away  from your goals. Joseph Murphy states that our subconscious mind creates our  reality through the pictures we accept  and hold. If you have been doing affirmations over a period of years and still  getting nowhere, it would be wise to look inwardly at the pictures that you have  been holding about yourself. If you are not sure, if you doubt, then it will not  come to pass, because the messages you send to your subconscious mind are  controversial and you sabotage your goals. That is why we fail to manifest what  we want.

Brad Yates provides an example how contradictory thoughts influence our  manifestation. If we imagine ourselves going to a restaurant and ordering a  hamburger, but immediately as the waiter walks away, you say, “I really  shouldn’t have that. Maybe I should order a salad. Or maybe I should have a  sandwich.” The waiter stands there waiting for you to make up your mind, and you  wonder why you don’t have your hamburger yet. Our subconscious mind is like this  waiter, he can’t serve us if we send contradictory signals to it. Some people  try visualizing and affirming what they want for a moment, but then they spend  the rest of the time undoing this creation by worrying and doubting. Joseph  Murphy reminds us that when our desires and imagination are in conflict, our  imagination invariably wins. Ron Holland confirms it in his book “Eureka Enigma”  by saying that when the words and the pictures are in conflict it is always the  pictures that win.

Rev. Chenoweth advises to say to yourself: “The worry stops here!” You must do it at the moment when you  feel worried, not later. Focus only on what you desire. Do not focus on your  fear of not achieving your goal. If you doubt it, then it will not come to pass.  Chenoweth says that if we see our problem as a heavy rope, it seems to be strong  and unbreakable. And yet this rope is made of individual strands. If you would  take it apart, it would be easy to break these strands even with bare hands. If  you stop worrying and trying too hard to get solutions consciously, your  subconscious mind will solve problems for you, and you start to move intuitively  in the right direction. You have to shift your awareness to your desired reality  in order to draw it into manifestation. The key is to feel comfortable with  thinking, talking and acting in a state where your desire is already a reality.  This means that you must relax and release all stress related to achieving your  goal.  You have the power to bring yourself into harmony with who you  really are – a being that has infinite possibilities of experiencing great  success in life.

Ulrica  R.Richmond –    About the Author:

Ulrica R. Richmond produces articles on the power of your mind that can help  you succeed in business and in everyday life.  Read more how to overcome  fear and worry , increase you self worth, discover your  inner voice   and attract a positive confident  energy  into your life by  visiting this website! http://millionairemind.weebly.com/self-confidence.html

 

 

Thought Power – Your Thoughts Create Your Reality

thought powerThought power is the key to creating your reality. Everything you perceive in the physical world has its origin in the invisible, inner world of your thoughts and beliefs. To become the master of your destiny, you must learn to control the nature of your dominant, habitual thoughts. By doing so you will be able to attract into your life anything you desire with exact precision as you come to know the Truth that your thoughts create your reality.

For Every Outside Effect There is an Inner Cause: Every effect you see in your outside or physical world has a very specific cause which has its origin in your inner or mental world. This is the essence of thought power. Put another way, the conditions and circumstances of your life are as a result of your thoughts and beliefs. James Allen said it best when he said “circumstances do not make a man, they reveal him”. Every aspect of your life, from the state of your finances to the state of your health and your relationships, is accurately revealing your thoughts and your beliefs.

It’s an Inside Job: Most people have it back to front, believing that they feel or think a certain way because of their circumstances, not knowing the truth that it is their thought power that is creating those very circumstances, whether wanted or unwanted. By internalizing and applying this Truth, that your thoughts create your reality, you will grant yourself the power to create the changes you desire to see manifest in your life. Reality creation is an inside job.

Your Thought Power is Limitless: There is a single, intelligent Consciousness that pervades the entire Universe – all powerful, all knowing, all creative and present everywhere at the same time – the Universal Mind. Your mind is part of this One Universal Mind and since your thoughts are a product of your mind, it follows that your thought power too is limitless. Once you truly understand that your mind is one with the Single Source of All Power and that this power is within you, you will have found the only true source of infinite power for which nothing is impossible and impossible is nothing. Know that thought power comes from within. All power comes from within.

Your Thoughts are Alive: The greatest mystics and teachers that have walked the Earth have told us that everything is energy. This fundamental Truth has now been undeniably confirmed by modern science. Your thoughts too are energy. William Walker Atkinson told us that “where mind is static energy, thought is dynamic energy – two phases of the same thing” and Charles Haanel went on to say that “thought power is the vibratory force formed by converting static mind into dynamic mind”. Your thoughts are alive. Each time you entertain a specific thought, you emit a very specific, corresponding frequency or energy vibration.

What Frequency Are You On: The basic premise of the Law of Attraction is that like energy attracts like energy. You attract to yourself those things and circumstances that are in vibrational harmony with your dominant frequency, which is itself determined by your dominant mental attitude, habitual thoughts and beliefs. Mike Dooley, one of the presenters of the movie The Secret, fittingly suggests if you want to know what a thought looks like, just look around you. Keep in mind his three words “thoughts are things”.

Not All Thoughts Are Created Equal: The attractive power of any particular thought is determined by how often you have that thought and by the strength of the feelings or emotions associated with it. The more energy you give to a particular thought, the greater its power to attract its corresponding circumstance into your physical world through the Law of Attraction. Your one-off, passing thoughts do not have the same creative power as your habitual thoughts and beliefs. Remember, that it is of little use to entertain positive thoughts for just a short burst of time each day if you then proceed to think negative or unwanted thoughts for the rest of the day. Your reality is the sum total of all your thoughts.

Use Thought Power to Change Your Life: It is your subconscious mind that is the store house of your deep-seated beliefs and programmes. To change your circumstances and attract to yourself that which you desire, you must learn to programme and re-programme your subconscious mind. Since your mind is one with the all-powerful Universal Mind, the potential power of your subconscious mind is also limitless. The most effective and practical way to programme your subconscious mind for success in all areas of your life is to learn the simple process of creative visualization. It is the technique underlying reality creation, making use of thought power to consciously imagine, create and attract that which you desire. Your imagination is the engine of your thoughts. It converts your thought power into mental images.

Become Aware of Your Thoughts But Not Obsessed: It is important that you learn to be aware of your habitual thoughts and to appropriately adjust them so as to maintain an overall positive mental attitude. However, be careful not to become obsessed with every thought that enters your mind as this would be equally counter-productive, if not more so, than not being aware of them at all. Remember that to obsess over your negative, unwanted thoughts, is to give them power and as the saying goes, what you resist persists. So instead of resisting any of your negative thoughts, simply learn to effortlessly cancel them by replacing them as they arise.

Instantly Replace Unwanted Thoughts: To instantly neutralize the power of a negative thought, calmly and deliberately replace it with its opposite, positive equivalent. For instance if you think to yourself “I’m not good enough, I will never succeed”, mentally replace the thought with “I am good enough and success comes to me easily”. You can also use the “cancel cancel” technique made famous by the Silva Method. Each time you catch yourself thinking an unwanted thought, mentally tell yourself and the Universe “cancel cancel” and immediately follow it up with a positive statement.

Tame Your Dominant Thoughts and the Random Will Follow: It is estimated that the average person has between 12,000 and 70,000 thoughts a day. This is evidence enough to suggest that your goal should not be to control every thought. It is your dominant thoughts and beliefs that you must learn to bring under your conscious control as they are what largely determine your mental attitude. As you do, you will find your random thoughts themselves becoming more positive and more deliberate.

The following words of Siddhartha Gautama Buddha perfectly capture the essence of thought power: “All that we are is the result of what we have thought. The mind is everything. What we think we become.”

In a nutshell, your life is the perfect mirror of your thoughts, beliefs and dominant mental attitude. Whether you realise it or not you are already creating your reality through your thought power. Every effect you see in your outside world has its original cause within you – no exceptions. To gain access to the greatest creative power at your disposal, you must learn to control the nature of your habitual thoughts and to align yourself with the One Source of All Power of which you are a part. Your thoughts create your reality – know, internalize and apply this Truth and you will see your life transform in miraculous ways.

Tania Kotsos – About the Author:

Tania Kotsos is the founder and author of Mind Your Reality – Your Ultimate Guide to Using Mind Power to Create Your Reality. She has been studying mind power and the nature of reality for the last 15 years.

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Forgiving, Forgetting, & Boundary Setting

Is it really possible, or practical, to forgive and forget if someone is only going to repeat abusive and harmful behaviors? It is, but it requires a little more clarity on the entire process of boundary setting in conjunction with forgiveness.

forgivenessIn the past several years I have become even more savvy on the dynamics of abuse. I have also become aware of how abusers pretty much count on people forgiving them and forgetting about the harm they cause as a way to escape from the consequences of their destructive behaviors.

Which is why I want to draw upon the Christian teachings I was raised on. Because to me Jesus is a major example of forgiveness. Yet, when Jesus famously forgave those around him, at one point he also proclaimed, “Go and sin no more.” In other words, all of us, when we are given the blessing of forgiveness, have at the same time a responsibility to become more conscious of our destructive patterns. And, once aware of them, we need to actively move to change our behaviors so we sin (or harm ourselves and others) no more.

What about forgetting then? Though I have no idea what the roots are of the words forgiving and forgetting, it has not passed by me that the words can easily be broken into “for – giving” and “for – getting.” Looked at this way I can almost imagine acient folks looking at two people who have harmed each other, and then telling them to both step into the center of the room for the purpose of “giving” and “getting.” Or, to put it more simply for the sake of apologizing and making restitution with each other so the scales of justice (or karma) are set right.

Yet, sadly forgiving and forgetting has often turned into, “Ok, I’ll be a nice person and let you off the hook entirely. You don’t have to get conscious. You don’t have to change your behaviors. I’ll just let the whole thing go. And, you can go on being hurtful like you were before.” Quite frankly this is the fundamental reason why abusive relationships continue. Abusive people never have to suffer any consequences for their destructive behaviors. And, their forgiving spouses (who continue to ignore the abuse) end up getting hurt again and again and again.

So, what is the better way to forgive? First, it is true, when you don’t forgive you remain stuck in the past. Your thoughts spin negative. You are not able to create a more positive future for yourself. In many respects you continue the abuse cycle. Only this time instead of the other person harming you, you are harming yourself. That is why forgiveness primarily helps YOU. It helps you let go, move on, and move forward in your life free from the negative impact of the person who wounded you in the first place.

But, it is also true that forgiveness requires being able to stand in a place of spiritual power. As Jesus conveyed, now that the other person has been given a second chance, they now have a responsibility with that chance to become a better person. I am reminded of the famous play and film Les Miserables, which is a major story of forgiveness. In this tale Jean val jon steals silver from the home of the priest and is caught. Though the priest could have easily sent Jean val Jon back to the labor camps, he did not. Instead, he forgave Jean val jon. But, in forgiving him he also requested what he now wanted from Jean val jon (which was the priest’s way of saying what he would be “getting” in return). He said, “With this silver I have bought your soul for God.” Meaning he now held Jean val jon responsible for waking up, setting things right, and becoming a better human being from now on. Thank God, Jean val jon did.

As I see it then real forgiveness requires a great deal of spiritual power and spiritual perspective. To get to this point you do need to use forgiveness to heal enough to embrace more your own value and dignity as a human being. Letting go of your pain will help you get there, which is why forgiveness is a tool that mostly helps you. Once healed and free from the wounds of the past as a powerful and dignified human being, you then have the responsibility to learn about how to better protect yourself from such hurtful behavior. Then, you need to develop the capacity to set boundaries so you prevent that person from wounding you anymore. And, if you can manage it, you can even learn to develop enough spiritual power that with dignity and grace you are able to convey to the person who has harmed you, that in being forgiven, they have a responsibilty to wake up and become a better person.

With these steps everyone gives, everyone gets, and balance is restored for the good of all.

Blessings,

Dr. Lisa Love

“The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is an attribute of the strong”. — Ghandi

Dr Lisa Love – About the Author:

Dr. Lisa Love is the founder of LoveMovies! and also the best-selling author of BEYOND THE SECRET: Spiritual Power and the Law of Attraction; ATTRACTING REAL LOVE: 4 Steps for Finding the Love You Want; and SOUL SUCCESS: How to Create Joy & Prosperity in Good Times or Bad; MEDITATION: The Path to Peace. Buy these books and receive bonus gifts at my website. She is also a Life, Relationship, Law of Attraction, and Tranformational coach. There’s a reason my clients tell me by working with me they get major breakthroughs fast! Decades of coaching and counseling experience combined with my extensive training and work with clients from all backgrounds help my clients make shifts in a rapid way. Contact me to discover what I can do for you. FREE GIFTS ON MY WEBSITE: Go to: http://www.doctorlisalove.com/freegifts.html WEBSITE: http://www.doctorlisalove.com EMAIL: lisa@doctorlisalove.com FACEBOOK: http://www.facebook.com/doctorlisalove FAN PAGE on FACEBOOK:http://www.facebook.com/pages/Dr-Lisa-Love/48936741770 LOVEMOVIES: http://www.lovemoviesonline.com TWITTER: http://www.twitter.com/doctorlisalove