Spread love not fear be the best you can be!

“Every time you abuse a child, every time you hit a child, every time you swear at a child,every time you put fear into a child. Every time you are negative with a child. What are you Educating them into?

Spread love not fear be the best you can be! ~ You are not educating them into them into “Love” you are not educating them into feeling good and liking themselves, you are not educating them into feeling confident and positive.

You are not educating them into them into “Love”

You are not educating them into them into “Love” you are not educating them into feeling good and liking themselves, you are not educating them into feeling confident and positive you may as well just rip all their  friends away from them before they start making them as that is what you’re doing And by god friends are important as a child. What you are doing is crushing their spirit with your negativity, anger, lack of trust and fear and insecurities.You are crushing them with the fact, that YOU don’t really like YOURSELF and are afraid to be REAL!! You are crushing within them the wonder of Life.

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How to Identify Your Destiny

destiny-roadWe all try to pin point our destiny. We all wish to know exactly what our calling is, what we should do in life, career paths to take, and so on. This question has always frustrated myself as well. However, while meditating on the question recently, I realized why the answer had not yet been given to me.

I have written before on how we are gifted with talents, interests, and certain likings for a reason. And it is these skills we were gifted with that we should steer our jobs, service, and our fun towards. But how often do we doubt our talents? How often do people suggest we “don’t go for that career”, because it’s not known for making lots of money? How little are we encouraged to step outside the box to try new things that spark our interest?

Life is known to hold us back, but mainly because people fear change. We fear what we can become, or what we want to become, because we often think we can’t. Well, the answer I received to that question was this: You cannot realize your destiny if you doubt yourself. Because if you doubt yourself, you won’t understand what you were meant for.

Doubting yourself means you lack the faith in who you are and who you were created to be – something we had no control over. It is God who created us in his image, his likeness. He created us for his plan, and every person will have their own unique qualities and traits for a reason. The strong passions and talents you have, from art to music, to writing and teaching, they don’t just grow in you overnight! You were fashioned with certain gifts to live out your specific and unique life.

Ultimately, we were meant to use what we were given in order to live out our calling. Someone shared a quote with me once that said, “Everything you’ll ever need, you’ve always had.”  Truthfully, that quote speaks about our gifts we’ve had in us since birth. And indeed, these gifts are meant to drive us on this journey, fulfilling our calling and purpose in life.

So, what can you do to realize your own destiny? Begin by not doubting yourself and by loving who you are. Understand that you, along with every person in this world, was gifted with a unique personality and certain talents – no exceptions! Even if you have not discovered your talents yet, there will come a time when you will.

We all possess hundreds of interests, so start even with the smallest of detail. For example, if you have a love for children, that could very well be a gift you were blessed with. If you love children and are creative, you might make a great teacher, designer for children clothing, author of children books, etc. – the possibilities are literally endless. If you are really stuck, simply make a list of everything you’re interested in, from favorite scents to favorite music! Get to know yourself better and the areas that interest you. Then simply take these interests and begin to envision how you can use them in life, whether as a hobby or even a career.

The key, however, is to understand that these gifts were placed inside you for the benefit of not only your own joy, but for the joy and purpose of the Creator. As mentioned before, he is the one that has shaped and purposed you for his ultimate plan, and we give back (and say “thank you”) by using our talents for him and his people. Does this mean you should only work for a church? Of course not. You can uphold almost any job, as long as you put your heart, focus and the right intent into it.

Keep your HEART on your passions in order to develop them, and FOCUS them towards serving the greater purpose, and by doing so, you will truly begin to realize your destiny.

KarinAbout the Author:
Karin believes in the importance of a focused, spiritual journey.  She hopes to inspire those seeking truth and change through dream guidance, inspirational articles, and more at thegardendream.com

Listening is different from hearing.

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This is a re-post of one of Joanne’s popular posts…

Listening to the world around you is not often a skill that is consciously practiced. Nevertheless, it is a skill that is definitely worth cultivating. Active and engaged listening can help you to better understand other people, the interactions of society and the world around you. The more you listen, the more you learn

Listening is an essential part of communication, and it is different from hearing. Being a good and patient listener helps you not only solve many problems at work or home, but also to see the world through the eyes of others, thereby opening your understanding and enhancing your capacity for empathy. In addition, you learn a lot from listening. As simple as listening to and acknowledging other people may seem, doing it well, particularly when disagreements arise, it does takes sincere effort care and lots of practice and patience.

One most important to remember… Do not interrupt with what you feel or think about the topic being discussed. Wait for another person to ask your opinion before interrupting the flow of discussion. Active listening requires the listener to shelve his or her own opinions temporarily, and await appropriate breaks in the conversation for summarizing. Abstain from giving direct advice or opinion. Instead, let him or her talk the situation out and find his or her own way to the end of their conversation.

Reality is an illusion, a projection from our collective being.

Posted byJoanne Wellington for Mediums World
Hmmm!  Now this is interesting just take a look anyway it can’t hurt can it…?
Quantum physics is confirming what the sages, yogis and  seers and metaphysicians have been Saying for over a millennia.  Reality is an illusion, a projection from our collective being. 

Mother Nature, Mother Earth , Tragedies.

Just look at the tragedies that are happening Japans Earthquake being one of them.

Mother Nature, Mother Earth . . . terms we use so frequently, but do we fully understand and embrace the meaning behind these words . .

Earth is a very important part of our lives. Most of us wouldn’t think of polluting our bodies would we?, yet we are polluting our planet by misuse and overuse of our natural resources. As responsible individuals we should at least do what we can to help reduce, reuse, and recycle what we can as a first step.

We are not completely to blame; we inherited a polluted Earth, but we can do something to ensure that our children can grow up in a cleaner, safer planet than ourselves. Don’t ever let someone get away with saying “what can I do, I am only one person”. Each and every person can do a lot, and you can influence others to do something as well.

I  want to try something new there are thousands of people that visit this site but yet very rarely leave a comment which is a shame as the more comments and views put forwards the more inspiring or interesting it can get.

Instead of me putting a row of tips on what we can do to help make mother earth a better and safer planet…. Iwant to ask “you the viewers” to leave a tip of your own in the comment box about what we could do to help our planet so other viewers can also read and be inspired… it would be bitterly disappointing to see no comments at all. So anyone that does leave a posting wow for caring about our planet and wow for taking part.

Positivity is free here for the taking, inspiration awaits only to be recognized and confidence is always encouraged, You are safe to like or comment anything on these page’s without the worry of getting judged that’s why this blog was created only for people who are inspired to do better and move forwards through life and help others I look forward to hearing from you with thanks.

Written by Joanne Wellington for Mediums World
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The Rules for Being Human

The Rules for Being Human

The Rules for Being Human

1. You will receive a body. You may like it or hate it, but it will be yours for the entire period this time around.

2. You will learn lessons. You are enrolled in a fulltime informal school called life. Each day in this school you will have the opportunity to learn lessons. You may like the lessons or think them irrelevant and stupid.

3. There are no mistakes, only lessons. Growth is a process of trial and error, experimentation. The “failed” experiments are as much a part of the process as the experiment that ultimately “works.”

4. A lesson is repeated until learned. A lesson will be presented to you in various forms until you have learned it. When you have learned it, you can go on to the next lesson.

5. Learning lessons does not end. There is no part of life that does not contain its lessons. If you are alive there are lessons to be learned.

6. “There” is no better than “here.” When your “there” has become a “here” you will simply obtain another “there” that will again look better than “here.”

7. Others are merely mirrors of you. You cannot love or hate something about another person unless it reflects to you something you love or hate about yourself.

8. What you make of your life is up to you. You have all the tools and resources you need. What you do with them is up to you. The choice is yours.

9. Your answers lie inside you. The answer to life’s questions lie inside you. All you need to do is look, listen, and trust.

10. This will often be forgotten, only to be remembered again.