I love my kids! How much do you love your kids!!

 I love my kids! How much do you love your kids!! Because attracting the wrong people into their lives is on your head! meaning the type of friends and people you choose to be around you and your children”
Four generations

I love my kids! How much do you love your kids!!

How much do you love your children? Because attracting the wrong people into their lives is on your head! meaning the type of friends and people you choose to be around you and your children”

Setting the right foundations from the very beginning, from the moment they start watching you is so important, and continuing throughout as they grow. It is an important part of our parenting involving making decisions making sure your children are not surrounded by the wrong type of people.

I mean come on your not stupid  you know what I mean  if you have major selfish ‘me me me’ drama kings  or queens around your children .. That is not taking responsibility is it!  Having responsibilities and having duties to perform in keeping our kids safe at all times is one of our main priorities.

Sometimes we may wonder how to achieve a balance with these different demands they are conflicting for many people the first step to finding a balance is by holding a positive mind-set around them even through the bad, the bad is there for a reason it helps change our way of thinking for the better but that’s for us not our children, their time will come later on in life  …You have to believe  “(positive mind set)” in you in the people you associate with and around  is the best start for your children.

In “Parenting with Love and Logic” by Fay and Cline, they describe a child who needs to know their parents love them by setting firm limits. Children push their parents to see if they are going to be consistent, because if they are, the child will feel safe and stable, but if not, they will actually feel insecure and anxious growing up.

The authors liken this to a child leaning against a wall to see if it will hold up and not crumble; if they push against the wall and it crumbles, the child realizes that very little in life is stable and secure. At the same time, a wall is not going to push against the child either, it is not going to fall on top of them or hurt them, it just stands firm. Just as our children yearn for stability, we desire the same as adults.

“In all things that you can buy you will get what you paid for… In children, you will get back what values you put into them”.

Children, unfortunately do not come with “time-outs,” however, their needs must be met. In those times I have always managed to pick myself back up and continue to be the capable human being my children deserve and what they have helped make me today. Don’t worry that children never listen to you; WORRY  that they are always  WATCHING YOU ! And as your children get older  If you have never been hated by your child at some point you have never been a parent.

I wont lie I have made mistakes we all make mistakes. It is part of the learning process. Anyone who has never made a mistake has never tried anything  new to better their life. Are you the kind of person who can learn from those mistakes?

I love my kids! How much do you love your kids!!

Really think about the kinds of values you would want to install in your children. The brain of a child is like a little sponge, it will soak everything up, hold it for as long as it can and then it will wring itself back out. If you want what comes back out of their sponge to be clean for them, then guess what? You need to be completely accountable for your actions. If you are not ready for near total accountability, you are not ready to have children.

I am a capable human being but there have certainly been times where I have literally curled up into a corner and had myself good, heart-wrenching sobs. In those moments I felt there was no possible way I could continue to go on doing what needed to be done but if you love and care for your children in a natural way you should do you will  always end up were you are needed to end up.

Happiness and comfort’ is a choice Life is a choice. It is YOUR life and you are the start of your child’s/children’s life. Choose consciously, choose wisely, choose honestly. Choose happiness for you and them.

THINK!╰დ╮❤╭დ╯SEE!  KNOW! ~J.Wellington ~

How to stay grounded

How to stay grounded

How to stay grounded.

How to stay grounded

As a clairvoyant and healer, I understand the importance of grounding myself on a regular basis. When you possess the ability read energy from a higher conscious place, it’s so easy for your soul to automatically transition into Spirit. In other words, you want to be in the place where you are channelling energy. Yet, we live on Earth so we must remain present here in our daily lives.

So what are the symptoms of not being grounded? Here are just a few that you might identify with:

  • Feeling like your head is in the clouds
  • Difficulty concentrating
  • Forgetting things often
  • Losing track of time
  • Not living in the Present.
  • Feeling constantly in worry mode
  • Being accident prone
  • Frequent mood swings.
  • Avoiding life by excessively sleeping, reading, video games, drinking, TV etc..
  • Feeling drained by other people

Here are a few tips that will keep you grounded, and make you feel like you’re on planet Earth once again:

Complete a Grounding Exercise

When you wake up every morning, place your feet on the ground, and imagine the roots of a tree, wrapping around the tops of your feet and going to the center of the core of the earth. You may also repeat this several times a day or simply say the words “Grounded” out loud or in your mind. My feet always tingle when I do this.

Eat earthy foods.

Avoid processed foods whenever possible eat whole grains, vegetable proteins such as legumes, root vegetables, minerals like calcium and iron., and red coloured foods that activate your root chakra.

Breathe!

This may be obvious but so many people hold their breath when they are stressed out. Take several time a day to take several deep breaths, and allow the oxygen to flow into every cell of your body. You will feel revived and refreshed.

Take a Hot Bath or Shower.

After an emotionally draining day, take a hot bath and sprinkle some epsom salts. Water itself is purifying and the sea salts work to detoxify all of the accumulated negative energies that you have gathered throughout your day. Always rinse the salt off of your body before you get out. If you are showering, sprinkle some epsom salts onto your lufa, and imagine all of the negative energy going down the drain.

Be with Nature

Nature is one of the most powerful healing agents in the world. Spend time with the forest, ocean, rivers and mountain peaks. Nature’s energy is incredibly healing. Have you ever leaned up against a tree and felt the energy of the tree healing you? Mother Nature has the ability to repair the cells in your body. It’s such a gift and it’s right outside your door!

Extra Tip: For an even stronger grounding and healing connection to the Earth, take your shoes and socks off.

Remember that we all need to stay grounded in order to live a happy and productive life.

Maxine Friend – About the Author:

Voted as most popular clairvoyant in Vancouver, Maxine dedicated much of her time and energy to noteworthy causes.

Maxine is a member of the Canadian Association of Psychics, and is also an active member of the Scleroderma Association of British Columbia. Maxine is a level II Certified Reiki practitioner; specializing in Usui Reiki Ryoho. In her spare time, Maxine mentors other developing clairvoyants.

Time for ourselves

Release to the winds of time and energy all of the matters that once were but should no longer be reflected in our lives. Allow people to move on without regretting their loss but with thanks for their presence for the time they were with us.

Time for ourselves

There is this reverberating conversation in my head. Words, letters and phrases I have heard many times before. Hearing but not knowing what is said. Listening but having to let go the words as they fill my mind. The consequences of that being heard are grave, but also petty and childish to extreme. They tell of things happening or imagined as happening : I no longer know which, but repeating the same old hang-ups. The same old tired cliché of an unprepared mind. It hangs on to things past when they cannot be changed and the lessons are no longer relevant  to the now.

From experience I know only too well what that does to the mind, to the body and to the soul. We misrepresent all the facts changing them to suit what we need to hear, enabling us to carry on doing the same things we have always done. We do not accept that it may be our own fault. It may have been partly from the choices we made in another dimension but we return to the source to provide the backdrop of our life and fail to take into account time, duration and loss.

How much better it would be if we let go. Release to the winds of time and energy all of the matters that once were but should no longer be reflected in our lives. Allow people to move on without regretting their loss but with thanks for their presence for the time they were with us. Remembering only those meetings that were positive and with their movement let go of any real or imagined slight they may have brought to us.

This is not an easy proposition and may well be impossible for some to embrace, but in all we do and say there is power and in reality we are the sum of all we do and say and it is for our own benefit that we need to release the expectations of the past and embrace those of now. It is not always  necessary to challenge the spoken word of others. They are as entitled to an opinion as any.

We should however, always be on guard against those who are using the past to justify their actions in the present. We are all here to share this world and as individuals we have the power to lead, where those who prefer to follow along a path that only ensures conflict not contentment and harmony. No words, written or spoken, can be wholly right, as they are said or written by individuals and are a reflection of their mind-set and not that of any other individual.

Do not simply follow, be aware, digest the words and participate in the life we have now. Let go of the past, not the memories for most memories are potent reminders of others, but be selective and work towards positive goals in all we say and think.

 
Marilyn Reynolds
Spiritualist
© Marilyn Reynolds 2011

Crystal Energy and Chakras

Crystal energy can be used to increase the energies that help healing the body  and mind. Unbalances in the body’s energy field can be caused by the mind  focusing on negative aspects. Crystal energy helps change negative energies and  replaces them with positive energies.
Crystal energy affects your body by  balancing your body’s energy. I will not be touching here on the use of crystals  healing by means of a healer; however, I will focus on the use of crystal energy  and the theory behind healing crystals and gemstones.
crystal chakrasThe theory behind  crystal energy is to do with the Quantum theory. The Quantum theory considers  the Universe and all things that make it, as existing in an empty space with  forms of energy moving within each space. Of course this includes our physical  body which is a space with energy flowing infinitely through its own space. Your  body’s energy is used when you breath and when you show emotions and  thoughts.
The healing processes of crystals and gemstones are considered  a special flow of energy that change the way the destructive energy flows. This  special flow of energy can be helped by the use of healing crystals and  gemstones to improve and speed up the healing processes. Crystals and gemstones  can be used as a tool to give the healing flow of energy an important boost in adding power to achieve cures.
Crystal energy and crystals are a tool that can enhance not just your health,  but anything you undertake. Although crystals and gemstones occupy a different  space than our body and mind, within the Universe there occur an interaction  between your body and mind and the energy forms. This interaction is executed  through shared properties resulting from the energy flow.
For example,  the electromagnetic properties of a Quartz  crystal share the same type of electromagnetic properties of the body,  thus somehow the crystal’s electromagnetic  energy flows can positively interact with the same electromagnetic energy  flow of the human body.
The quantum theory helps to explain the effect of  crystals in our psychological and biological life. Even disregarding the Quantum  theory, the use of healing crystals and gemstones has been a beneficial practice  used by people throughout centuries. This practice is very beneficial for the  healing processes.
Crystals and their colors correspond to chakra points in your body. These have been found to have  cleansing and energizing properties that interact with the body causing them to  work on problem areas. Appling the energy of the crystals and gemstones to the  body enhances the cleansing and energizing effect to the body.
Below is a  list of the chakras and most popular crystals used in healing.
Root  Chakra: Jasper (bloodstone), garnet, onyx and rubies.
Second Chakra: Hematite  and moonstone.
Third Chakra: Citrine, amber and topaz.
Fourth Chakra: Rose  quartz and Chinese Fluorite.
Fifth Chakra: Aquamarine and turquoise.
Six  Chakra: Sapphire, turquoise and amethyst.
Seventh Chakra: Clear quartz and  amethyst.

Lynn Claridge –    About the Author:

Lynn Claridge is a qualified Crystal Healer and has written a book “Crystal  Healing for Profit or Pleasure. If you want to Learn Crystal  Healing visit her site www.learncrystalhealing.com or for Spiritual Growth and  Psychic Development visit www.mysticalempowerment.com

 

A personal note

I have been lying in bed feeling really unwell, trying to rest but can’t, the body needs to, but the mind will not at the moment. Even with all the training and experience I have, I can’t get it to rest, maybe because I’m unwell or maybe I’m just feeling sorry for myself? I don’t honestly know at the moment.

Tomorrow is my birthday another year older and this thought is what started the thoughts presently going through my mind, a further thought said that maybe I should share these thoughts with you. A birthday is really like New Years Eve, as New Years Eve marks the start of a new year for everyone a birthday is like the eve of a personal new year for each of us. So I have been looking back over this last “personal year” of my own and forward to what my next one may or may not bring. We all have hopes & dreams of what a new year may bring but in reality have no control over what the future holds for us, as everyone around us, their thoughts and actions affect us as much as our own, and so affect our future too. Therefore what we may wish for can be both taken from us or granted by the actions of others no matter how hard we may try to make our own personal dreams and wishes come true.

I have been looking back at the mistakes I have made, my own personal weaknesses that I have identified, and those I have noted in others. There have been major changes in my life over the past year, in certain areas I have put my life on-hold and in others simply gone with the flow of life to see where it will take me, but on the whole I have left a lot to Trust, Intuition and Faith, that I will be supported and guided by god, spirit, the angels and the universe, and that I am on my true pathway.

I have made mistakes over this past year as we all do, I have placed trust where maybe I shouldn’t have been so trustworthy, I have attempted to give my love, help and support to certain people and at times had it rejected or abused, but I know and understand that what I call the mistakes, are really lessons for me to learn. I have had to stand back and watch people I love make mistakes, knowing that I cannot help, for they have their own lessons to learn, something that I have re-learned and re-experienced this past year.

However this past year has also brought to me lots of love, kindness and support and also the opportunity to help others, including some new and very special people in my life, so you see there is always something positive, you just need to open your eyes, mind and heart to see it. I know that in this coming “personal new year” I have a lot to achieve, a lot to do, and my faith, love and trust will be tested & tested possibly to it’s limits, and therefore so will my strength of mind, body and spirit too.

My advice to myself? Try your best Steve to be the best you can be, keep your faith and belief’s strong, trust your own intuition and the link you have with the spirit world, listen and follow the guidance given by them, look after yourself physically, mentally and spiritually and always remember as you much as you give and share love you also deserve the same in return.

Thank you for listening…. please take care